Many couples work with the dynamics of Mom and Dad: you need authorization to do anything. If you want a night out of beers with the guys, or to go dancing at a club with your friends, you need to ask for “permission.” Will I get permission to go out without you one day? Sometimes even asking causes an argument. So why do you keep asking? In any case, it is better to make your plans, go out and then apologize. Finally you will come out winning the situation. It is always better to ask forgiveness than permission.